Begin the recipe by preparing the cabbage first. You'll need to clean, remove the core, and shred a head of cabbage.
This can be done using a sharp knife and cutting board and finely slicing the cabbage, then separating the slices into shreds. This could also be done using a mandoline or food processor.
Add the 8 cups shredded cabbage to a large bowl. Next clean and shred the ½ cup carrots and add them to the same bowl along with the cabbage.
In a small bowl, whisk together the 1 ½ cups mayo, 3 tablespoons white vinegar, 2 tablespoons + 2 teaspoons granulated sugar, 2 tablespoons whole milk, ½ teaspoon salt, and ½ teaspoon ground black pepper until combined.
Add the creamy dressing to the large mixing bowl with the cabbage and carrots. Gently stir to combine. Give it a taste and make adjustments as needed.
Place it into the refrigerator and allow it to chill for at least 30 minutes. Remove it from the refrigerator, give it a stir, and serve. Enjoy!